Calgary has been nothing short of sleepy. Â The intention was always to land here and close up logistics.
I’ve been spending quality time with my brother and mom. Â A slew of food excursions and mall outings piled on the calendar, among the pleasantries of daytime TV viewing. Â Who knew Oprah could be so enthralling again? Â Not I.
To sum up, there are more gear items to purchase, bank accounts to be amended and website maintenance – it’s never ending. Â Would I return to the cubicle? Â A resounding “NO”.
As for the culture here? Â Alberta is officially cattle country, so a pescetarian, bohemian profile like me skirts its natural laws.
I’m positive Calgary has more SUVs, trucks and ball caps per capita than it does recycle bins. Â There’s not much of a walking mentality here. Â My slow gait garners attention on the streets. Â Yeah, I’m the rock star of walking.
Given my brother’s SUV (yes, shameful), I tool around in it – stopping at my high school or the house of my formative years. Â My childhood home underwent a drastic makeover. Â New roof shingles, dark green siding. Â I didn’t recognize it! Â I was sure the teenager watering the sculptured landscaping wondered who that creepy woman in the SUV was. Â Watching, remembering. Â Call the cops.
Downtown Calgary Skyline
Perhaps I outgrew this town, but Calgary is a perfect city to raise kids, grab open, wide spaces and earn a comfortable wage. Â What I crave is adventure. Â To learn a new set of rules, ones that don’t involve mortgage rates or car maintenance.
So no, Calgary has far from challenged my travel survival skills, just the emotional ones.
There was a tiff or two with the brother, all in an effort to know him as an adult. Â A tear or five shed while visiting my mother in her nursing home.
The big news is a potential meet up with my ex is sooo off. Â Yeah, yeah you all told me so. Â Revisiting the past can’t be good.
I had goals. Â See, I’ve undergone such an evolution that it was time to readdress unfinished business. Â Maybe I just needed to know I made the right decision breaking up an 11 year relationship. Â Maybe I hoped he changed as much as I had.
Stephen Avenue - downtown Calgary
I charged ahead and booked a Greyhound ticket to Moosejaw, Sasketchewan. Â Where is that exactly? Â Directly south off Trans-Canada Highway #1, affectionately referred to as “flat” country.
Anyone who is from the grain belt of Canada or the US can relate, Sasketchewan has a lot of crops, not a lot of choices. Â In keeping with sleepy, I spent a few summers there moving through slow liquid. Â It’s that kinda place.
I gave it one day in Moosejaw to catch up with him, then out that night on another bus to big city – Toronto.
Whoah, did that blow up in my face. Â Although positive emails were exchanged, I sensed too late that unresolved feelings existed. Â For him, not so much for me. Â It was time to close shop. Â Funny how closure can take place without ever having to see the person face-to-face.
It was crap time!  Stuck with a ticket to Moosejaw (should have bought a refundable ticket – duh!) what the hell would I do for 8 hours?  Thankfully, Moosejaw discovered geo-thermal healing waters from a deep well originally drilled  for natural gas.  A geo-thermal wall and pipeline was raised in 1980, a full scale spa constructed around that.
Folks, I’m going to spend July 2nd at the Temple Gardens and Mineral Spa. Â It’s $15 CDN for an all day pass, it’s half a block from the Greyhound station, and free wifi – poolside.
And that’s traveling. Â Rolling with the punches.
What else I’m discovering is sometimes one must navigate internal travel. Â Emotional hurdles or pshychological truths. Â That’s me. Â Coming to peace with things that happened in childhood, or what didn’t – saying hello to old mates, even if they aren’t physically present. Â It’s all good.
Moosejaw saying Hi
I’ve added a little Google/Flickr map on the sidebar to inform y’all where I am, where I’m off to next. Â Check it often.
As I round up Calgary, Toronto won’t be wrought with so many emotional landmines. Â It’s gonna be all fun. Â The entire month of July!
Watch for some grand experiments in Canadian couchsurfing, hosteling and hopefully I can piece together a raucous Toronto meet-up. Â If you’re a Toronto travel blogger, email me and join the party. Â Let’s do up July in humidity and smog right!
Finally, I’m dying of curiosity – is travel internal or external for you? Â Or both? Â And why?
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@jilly – You don’t sound weird at all, just a true traveler who seeks out the little gems. Cheers to that! There are unique, idiosyncratic discoveries in small towns. That spa is one of them. Thanks for your comment!
@Alison – I’m learning that everyday. Long term travel is simply rolling with changes constantly! And I agree, living the moment is great, but sometimes processing and reflection happens after! And yup – hanging at the spa will be much better!
@The Longest Way Home – Lovely way to put it Dave! Thanks for sounding in.
@SHABL – I shall listen to you Mr. Portugal. :)
Enjoy the time in a small prairie town… this is going to make me sound maybe like a weirdo but I love hitting small SK towns (happens once in awhile for work) and just hanging out in the local coffee shop for an hour “reading the newspaper” (er, eavesdropping). I like to search for the best homemade whatever a town has to offer… pie to pierogies. I also get a kick out of the tiny museums a lot of the towns erect – nice and quick and sometimes unexpected. And, I secretly really enjoy small town bars, with varied decor that sometimes feels like a time warp, perfect for an afternoon vodka orange.
Moose Jaw has the spa, the Al Capone tunnels, and an adorable little downtown area. I’d call it walkable. Have a good time!
For what it’s worth I think going to the spa sounds way more fun than meeting with the ex :)
I think travel is both internal and external. Sometimes the internal part comes much later when you look back and realise how much the travel has changed and/or affected you. In the end rolling with the punches is what it’s all about. It was the hardest thing for me to adapt to in expat life but it sure comes it handy when you can do it gracefully.
“What else I’m discovering is sometimes one must navigate internal travel”
You hit the nail on the head. For me, it depends why you are traveling.
If you are one of those people traveling to find themselves, then they go hand in hand. If not, and you know who you are. Then, its external, but what you learn stays with you.
It’s like so many things, relevant to the person at the time :)
Donºt buy anything else until you get to Asia, it is all cheaper there. Youºll thank me and you need – want less than you have.
@ayngelina – Totally sucks. Hopefully someday we’ll meet!
@Lily – Loved your comment! Our memories are hard wired to experiences! Sometimes I think travel can be a personal journey without ever leaving a place physically. Come again!
@Nancie (Ladyexpat) – Shanghai? Ooh heard amazing things about it! Your trip sounds like soo much fun!
@Jabba – Hey, lady! Nice to see you here. I can’t wait for the spa! I haven’t been in 10 years. I might even book a reflexology apt. We’ll see. :)
@Sabina – Thanks for sharing your thoughts. And yes – it is too bad about the ex-bf meet-up. I set out to find something out, and did. Don’t regret that at all. :)
aww in Toronto and I wont be there, have lots of fun for me.
Good question Nomadic Chick – of course when I’m on the road its the immediate (external) impact of being in a strange/exotic/wierd place and the luxury of time to bathe in the moment, spend time storing up those memories for later without the usual daily distractions of work, commitments etc – but sooo much is internal for me; dreaming, planning, anticipating and then post event having memories triggered by random happenings, a song on the car radio, a smell, a photo… that’s why I love following travel blogs, it takes me on a journey to distant places I may or may not have visited myself. Hurrah for travel, and people like you sharing with me!!
The only province I have never been in Canada is Saskatchewan. Strange this the last boyfriend I had was from Saskatchewan………..now I definitely never want to go there.
Traveling is both for me. When I’m not traveling I’m thinking about it! I leave on Monday for Shanghai……..that’s all I’m thinking about right now!
Enjoy your travels.
Enjoy the spa, seriously you will love it. It’s better in the winter though when you can sit in the warm water outside when it’s -40.
If you get bored at the spa, Crescent Park is right across the street – it’s a great little park with a library…..that ought to keep you occupied!
I’m really sincerely sorry your meeting with your ex-boyfriend ended up washing out. The geothermal spa sounds like some pretty great compensation, at any rate.
Internal travel is a daily event for me. External is not so often but it’s more enjoyable than reliving past what-if’s, etc.
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